22 August 2011
“There would be no joy, no fulfillment in marriage unless it was unto the Lord.”
As unmarried young women, we look forward to the times when – Lord willing – we’ll be the God-given helpmeets to our husbands and the mothers to our young blessings.
What are we doing right now to prepare for this? Are we planning our kitchens, how we’ll organize the home, how we’ll do our hair every morning? Although those things have their place, marriage is about much, much more than how we will keep the home and how we will look.
Last Monday we began listening to the “Marrying Well” webinar which has already provided encouraging practical wisdom on marriage, preparation, courtship, selfless love, prayer, and much more! This five-week webinar (an online conference of sorts) is given by Geoffrey Botkin and his wife Victoria, David Botkin and his wife Nadia, and Benjamin Botkin and his wife Audri. Many self-examining questions have come to mind, which I believe are important for us all to ask ourselves.
What are we doing right now to serve Christ and His kingdom? Every season is a time and opportunity for ministry. Are we missing opportunities to bless others by letting the possibility of a servant’s heart lay dormant? Are we seeking ways to disciple others in obedience to our Lord?
If we are not doing these things now, do we think things will “magically” change after we marry?
Right now is the time to cultivate a servant’s heart. Right now is the time to minister to others. Right now is the time to die to self and love selflessly, setting aside our own wishes.
We must look for ways to bless others, to cultivate a joyful attitude, to be content (no matter what season we’re in, most likely we’ll be waiting for something), and trust in the Lord and His perfect plan. He will never call us to do something that He cannot give us the strength to persevere in.
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Tonight David & Nadia Botkin (above) will be sharing about how the Lord brought them together. Also to be addressed will be how to evaluate suitors and prepare children for marriage from a young age.
Click here to find out more about “Marrying Well” and to register!
(Everyone who registers will have access to the MP3 recordings – including the first session last week – so no worries if you aren’t available on Monday nights!)

































































